Numbness after Narcissistic Abuse

Emotional numbness after narcissistic abuse is something that can feel really confusing and even a little bit scary. If you’ve ever found yourself feeling “checked out,” struggling to connect with your feelings, or even feeling completely flat after dealing with a narcissist, you’re definitely not alone. This experience is more common than you might think, … Read more

Benefits Of Sharing Your Story

Sharing personal stories goes way beyond just putting words out into the world. Telling my story has opened up doors to new relationships, personal growth, and even professional change. Most people expect sharing their story to feel a bit vulnerable (it does), but there’s a whole stack of upsides, too. Here, I’m walking you through … Read more

The Shame-Addiction Cycle

Shame often lurks in the background of addiction, acting like an invisible force that shapes everything from daily decisions to relationships with others. It’s not just a fleeting feeling of embarrassment—it’s a much heavier sense that something is deeply wrong with who you are. For so many people dealing with addiction, shame sticks around even … Read more

Insecurity & Compulsive Behaviors

If you’ve ever found yourself stuck in patterns that don’t work for you, such as over-checking your phone, worrying endlessly, or seeking approval from others, there’s usually something deeper going on under the surface. How secure we feel in our relationships can drive why we sometimes slip into cycles we can’t seem to break. Many … Read more

Parenting during SUD Recovery

Parenting during recovery from substance use is a ride full of ups and downs. For people like me who’ve struggled with addiction, being a present and loving parent is really important, but recovery brings its own set of challenges, especially when kids are in the mix. If you find yourself steering through sobriety while raising … Read more

The “TherapyTok” Phenomenon

If you’ve scrolled through TikTok lately, you’ve probably noticed a surge of bite-sized therapy advice from creators claiming to know what’s best for your mental health. This wave of content is known as “TherapyTok.” The hashtag has racked up billions of views, and it seems like everyone, from licensed therapists to everyday users, has something … Read more

Choice Paradox leads to Addiction

The paradox of choice is something I keep spotting in my own life, especially with apps, streaming services, online shopping, and even everyday things like picking what to eat. Having more options sounds awesome, right? The weird thing is, the more choices I get, the harder it feels to stop scrolling, swiping, or second-guessing what … Read more

Drug-Like Effects of Sugar

Sugar doesn’t just make your morning coffee sweeter. It can actually work on your brain in some pretty wild ways. The science around sugar and its druglike effects is surprisingly deep, touching everything from brain chemistry to cravings and long-term health. I’m going to unpack how sugar influences both our minds and bodies, and why … Read more

Dopamine Vs Serotonin In Sobriety

Dopamine and serotonin are two brain chemicals I hear about a lot when it comes to mental well-being, motivation, happiness, and especially recovery from drugs or alcohol. Both play a big part when someone is working through sobriety, but their roles, effects, and even the way they change during recovery, are pretty different. I’m breaking … Read more

The Psychology of Crying

Crying easily can be one of those things that make everyday life feel a bit confusing, or even embarrassing, at times. If you find your eyes welling up at emotional movies, during stress at work, or while hearing certain songs, know that you’re not alone. Many people ask themselves if something might be wrong because … Read more