About how addiction affect relationships
Starting a diet can feel surprisingly easy. The first few days may bring motivation, careful meal planning, and confidence that this time will be different. Then hunger increases, stress takes over, cravings set in, a social event disrupts the plan, or one unplanned meal leads to thoughts of giving up completely. Why is sticking to … Read more
For someone recovering from alcohol use disorder (AUD), the thought “I’ll just have one drink” can seem harmless. A person may believe that after weeks, months, or years without alcohol, drinking is now something they can control. But for people whose recovery goal is abstinence, that first drink can represent an important relapse risk. Not … Read more
When a controversial public figure experiences a personal crisis, people may be tempted to describe the situation as “karma.” Perez Hilton’s recent mental-health crisis has prompted exactly that kind of reaction online. But a life-threatening mental-health emergency is not an appropriate moment for celebration, punishment, or amateur diagnosis. It is an opportunity to discuss compassion, … Read more
Relapse stories involving celebrities, athletes, musicians, and other public figures often attract headlines, but behind the publicity is an experience shared by many people living with substance use disorders. Recovery is rarely a perfectly straight path. A return to substance use can occur after months or even years of progress, especially when stress, cravings, untreated … Read more
Recovery from addiction involves much more than stopping alcohol or drug use. For many women, recovery also means confronting memories, damaged relationships, parenting concerns, financial consequences, lost opportunities, and decisions made while substance use was controlling their lives. As the mind becomes clearer, guilt about the past can become especially difficult to carry. Some guilt … Read more
Some people find themselves repeatedly caught up in arguments, relationship conflicts, gossip, social media disputes, or emotional highs and lows. Over time, this level of intensity can become so familiar that a peaceful environment feels uncomfortable or even dull. This pattern is sometimes described as “drama addiction,” although it is not an officially recognized medical … Read more
Drug overdose affects both women and men, but women may experience a distinct combination of biological, psychological, medical, and social factors that influence substance use and recovery. Although men currently have a substantially higher overall overdose death rate in the United States, focusing only on that comparison can hide important risks faced by women. Trauma, … Read more
Keith Urban is known internationally for his successful country music career, but behind his professional achievements was a long struggle with alcohol and other drug use. Urban has publicly discussed cocaine use, heavy drinking, treatment, relapse, and the work required to maintain recovery. His story demonstrates an important reality about addiction: professional success does not … Read more
Being kind and being a people pleaser can look remarkably similar from the outside. Both may involve helping others, saying yes to requests, avoiding unnecessary conflict, or putting another person’s needs first. The important difference often lies in what is happening internally. True kindness generally comes from empathy, personal values, and genuine choice. People-pleasing is … Read more
Stopping alcohol can bring major improvements in physical and emotional health, but recovery sometimes comes with an unexpected change: an intense desire for sweets. Candy, cookies, ice cream, soda, and other sugary foods may suddenly become much more appealing. Some people even describe feeling as though sugar has “replaced” alcohol. This does not mean that … Read more