About how addiction affect relationships
Talking about addiction isn’t always easy, but it makes a massive difference for everyone involved. Honest conversations can spark real understanding, reduce shame, and set a positive path, whether someone is struggling personally or supporting a loved one. Many families, friends, and even workplaces don’t know where to start, so I’m putting together practical steps … Read more
If you’ve ever caught yourself second-guessing your accomplishments, feeling like a fraud among colleagues, or worrying that someone might call you out for not being as skilled as you appear, you’re certainly not alone. Imposter syndrome often creeps in for people at all levels—from students just starting to seasoned professionals leading the way. That sense … Read more
If you’ve ever thought about getting help for something challenging going on in your life, you’re definitely not alone. Still, there’s a whole lot of misunderstanding and confusion out there about what it actually means to reach out for support, especially when it comes to mental health, emotional struggles, or even just feeling stuck. I’ve … Read more
Therapy is there to help us grow and heal, but sometimes, even after giving it a real shot, progress doesn’t seem to happen. Many people get stuck wondering if they’re doing something wrong or if the therapy is not clicking. It’s pretty standard to second-guess your own experience, especially when therapy is supposed to be … Read more
If you or someone close to you is struggling with addiction, the idea of breaking free can feel tough and out of reach. Figuring out what addiction actually looks like and learning how to fight back is a process that takes absolute honesty, patience, and helpful tools. I’ve been there myself, so I know how … Read more
Alcohol is more than just a drink for many veterans. It can become a comfort, a distraction, or a way to quiet memories that linger after military service. I’ve seen how reaching for a bottle often feels like the quickest path to relief after returning home from the deployment chaos. For a lot of folks, … Read more
Generational trauma—also called intergenerational or ancestral trauma—refers to emotional pain and coping patterns passed down through families, often without anyone realizing it. It can shape how people communicate, handle conflict, express love, and manage stress. You might see it in recurring family patterns like emotional distance, fear of vulnerability, or cycles of addiction and abuse. … Read more
Childhood experiences with trauma, such as neglect, abuse, or family conflict, can lead to emotional patterns that carry into adulthood, affecting trust, communication, and closeness. Many people repeat cycles such as people-pleasing, emotional withdrawal, or fear of abandonment without realizing these are learned coping mechanisms. The good news is that healing is possible. Recognizing how … Read more
If your family is dealing with the challenges of addiction, self-care often ends up at the bottom of the list. I know how easy it is to get caught up in crisis mode, worrying about your loved one and juggling everything else on your plate. The thing is, looking after yourself isn’t selfish. Self-care can … Read more
If your new relationship feels perfect on the surface but leaves you anxious, confused, or emotionally drained, you may be dealing with more than typical relationship ups and downs. Narcissistic relationships often start with charm, attention, and intensity—making it easy to overlook early warning signs. Over time, though, that excitement can give way to manipulation, … Read more