Different issues during recovery
Escaping the grips of a narcissist can feel overwhelming, especially when the cycle of control and confusion drags on for months or even years. If you’ve been caught in a relationship with someone who always turns things back on themselves and leaves you doubting your own judgment, you’re not alone. I want to break down … Read more
If you’ve ever felt torn between a heart-racing impulse and a calm, rational plan when making decisions, you’re far from alone. This ongoing tug-of-war between lust and logic influences nearly every aspect of our lives, from romantic relationships to everyday choices like spending or prioritizing tasks. Both forces play a significant role in shaping our … Read more
Understanding the difference between trauma and healing is crucial, whether you are navigating your own recovery journey or supporting someone you care about. Trauma and healing influence the mind, body, and emotions in profoundly different ways, shaping how we perceive, react, and interact with the world around us. By recognizing the signs and patterns of … Read more
If you’ve ever found yourself in a repetitive argument with your partner, sometimes about something small turning suddenly big, you’re not alone. What’s really going on here is something I like to call the couple’s escalation dance. This pattern of rising tension and back-and-forth can leave both people feeling disconnected, misunderstood, and completely wiped out. … Read more
The idea of an “addictive personality” comes up a lot in conversations about addiction, but it’s something that actually has way more myth than fact behind it. I’ve seen people toss around this label in all sorts of situations—from someone being super into sweets, to others who get caught up in video games or social … Read more
Dunning-Kruger in addiction recovery is a topic that a lot of people don’t know much about, but it can really affect the way someone approaches their own healing. The Dunning-Kruger effect basically means that folks with little knowledge or experience in a subject sometimes think they know a whole lot more than they actually do. … Read more
Obsessive-compulsive disorder (OCD) is a mental health condition that’s more than what people often think. It’s not just about being tidy or organized. It’s about relentless, unwanted thoughts (obsessions) and the things people feel driven to do to ease their anxiety (compulsions). Living with OCD can be exhausting and isolating, especially because many of its … Read more
Feeling stuck or discouraged during recovery can be incredibly difficult. It’s common to wonder, “What am I doing wrong?” or “Why does this feel so hard?” When progress seems slow or setbacks happen, self-blame can quickly take over. Many people come to believe that every struggle means they’re failing or not trying hard enough. But … Read more
If you’re living with addiction, one of the toughest things can be opening up to people close to you. Worries about judgment or being misunderstood might hold you back. I’ve been there myself, figuring out how and when to bring up my struggles in a way that steers clear of extra shame or stress. I’ve … Read more
Focusing on victims instead of abusers shows up a lot in conversations about harm, justice, and recovery. Many people wonder why the spotlight tends to fall on those who were hurt, rather than the individuals who caused the pain. I want to break down the reasoning behind this choice, why it matters, and how it … Read more