Different issues during recovery
Relapse is something most people in recovery think about at some point. While the first few months after quitting a substance, like alcohol or drugs, can be the most intense, a surprising number of relapses actually happen after six months or longer. I’ve seen this pattern play out over and over, and there are some … Read more
Attachment issues in fatherless homes can influence everything from relationships and self-esteem to mental health. Growing up without a consistent father figure has unique challenges that play out in how kids, and even adults, connect with others and build their sense of self. I’m walking you through what happens emotionally in these homes, why it … Read more
Noticing changes in skin color can feel unsettling. Sometimes it’s just a minor issue like spending too much time in the sun, but other times it’s connected to something going on inside your body. Skin color changes, especially yellowing or darkening, can be an early warning sign of liver damage. Knowing what to watch for … Read more
Grief often arrives in ways we don’t expect. Even when a loss is anticipated, the emotional weight that follows can feel sudden, confusing, and deeply overwhelming. Sadness, anger, numbness, and longing may all surface at once, leaving people unsure how to process their feelings. Having experienced different forms of grief myself, I understand how difficult … Read more
Self-medication isn’t new, but when it comes to dealing with stress, it’s something I see all the time. Lately, more people reach for over-the-counter pills, herbal remedies, or even a glass of wine just to take the edge off a tough day. While this might look harmless at first, self-medicating for stress can quickly lead … Read more
When it comes to addiction, friendships can shift from supportive to harmful in subtle but powerful ways. Friends often play an important role in providing encouragement, comfort, and accountability during difficult times. However, in the context of addiction, even well-intentioned friends may unintentionally enable unhealthy behaviors. Enabling can happen when someone minimizes the seriousness of … Read more
Black masculinity has historically been shaped by rigid expectations, stereotypes, and social pressures that define how Black men are expected to behave. Cultural narratives often emphasize strength, toughness, independence, and emotional control, leaving little room for vulnerability or open expressions of pain. Within this context, substance use and addiction can emerge in the lives of … Read more
If you or someone you care about is navigating addiction recovery, it’s common to wonder whether therapy or self-help is the better path. With so much information available—from professional treatment programs to books, online communities, and peer-support groups—it can feel overwhelming trying to decide what approach will be most effective. Therapy offers structured guidance from … Read more
Addiction science is an incredibly interesting field, and it’s a topic that’s on a lot of people’s minds. I find that questions about why some people develop addictions, while others don’t, come up all the time. It’s a tricky subject since there’s no single answer. Does addiction happen because of your genetics, or is it … Read more
Addiction receives significant attention in celebrity culture, often in ways that blur the line between awareness and sensationalism. Through tell-all interviews, dramatic movie roles, and lyrics that reference substance use, celebrities frequently share stories about their experiences with alcohol or drugs. While these stories can sometimes help reduce stigma and start important conversations about recovery, … Read more