About teenagers and college students additions
Living with addiction isn’t just about chemical hooks or lack of willpower. There are layers beneath the surface that keep us stuck in the loop. I’ve spent plenty of time reading about, talking with, and reflecting on addiction, and it’s clear that the reasons people hold onto addictive habits are both complicated and deeply human. … Read more
Addiction can pop up in the lives of people from all sorts of backgrounds. I’ve seen firsthand how the old stereotypes about who struggles with substance use and why just don’t match up with reality. The truth is, addiction doesn’t care how much money you make, where you live, or what you believe. These real … Read more
Gossip might seem like a harmless way to pass the time, but it can actually have a pretty big impact on mental health. This is true for both the people talking and the people being talked about. Most of us have experienced the effects of gossip, whether it’s at work, among friends, or even in … Read more
Relapse is something most people in recovery think about at some point. While the first few months after quitting a substance, like alcohol or drugs, can be the most intense, a surprising number of relapses actually happen after six months or longer. I’ve seen this pattern play out over and over, and there are some … Read more
Attachment issues in fatherless homes can influence everything from relationships and self-esteem to mental health. Growing up without a consistent father figure has unique challenges that play out in how kids, and even adults, connect with others and build their sense of self. I’m walking you through what happens emotionally in these homes, why it … Read more
Grief often arrives in ways we don’t expect. Even when a loss is anticipated, the emotional weight that follows can feel sudden, confusing, and deeply overwhelming. Sadness, anger, numbness, and longing may all surface at once, leaving people unsure how to process their feelings. Having experienced different forms of grief myself, I understand how difficult … Read more
Self-medication isn’t new, but when it comes to dealing with stress, it’s something I see all the time. Lately, more people reach for over-the-counter pills, herbal remedies, or even a glass of wine just to take the edge off a tough day. While this might look harmless at first, self-medicating for stress can quickly lead … Read more
When it comes to addiction, friendships can shift from supportive to harmful in subtle but powerful ways. Friends often play an important role in providing encouragement, comfort, and accountability during difficult times. However, in the context of addiction, even well-intentioned friends may unintentionally enable unhealthy behaviors. Enabling can happen when someone minimizes the seriousness of … Read more
Black masculinity has historically been shaped by rigid expectations, stereotypes, and social pressures that define how Black men are expected to behave. Cultural narratives often emphasize strength, toughness, independence, and emotional control, leaving little room for vulnerability or open expressions of pain. Within this context, substance use and addiction can emerge in the lives of … Read more
If you or someone you care about is navigating addiction recovery, it’s common to wonder whether therapy or self-help is the better path. With so much information available—from professional treatment programs to books, online communities, and peer-support groups—it can feel overwhelming trying to decide what approach will be most effective. Therapy offers structured guidance from … Read more